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Build a disclosure map: assets, income, debts, companies, property and children’s costs.
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German maintenance disputes involving a managing director, entrepreneur, investor, or self-employed parent are rarely solved by dropping one payslip into a calculator. The dispute usually turns on what income is real, recurring, available, and properly documented. Before arguing about the number, build the evidence file that lets a Caira or court understand the money.
The legal frame comes from the BGB rules on maintenance, including capacity to pay, the measure of child support, and spousal maintenance after divorce. The FamFG provides the family procedure lane. For child support, the Düsseldorf Table remains the central practical reference. The 2026 table published by the Oberlandesgericht Düsseldorf applies from 1 January 2026 and continues to be a guideline, not a private can help of what a court will order in every high-income case.
Separate Child Support From Spousal Support
Affluent families often blend several questions into one dispute: child support, private school, health insurance, nanny costs, housing, interim spousal support, post-divorce maintenance, and company-funded benefits. Keep them separate. Child support starts with the child, age, care pattern, and the paying parent's relevant income. Spousal support may require a broader view of marital living standards, need, earning capacity, and post-separation changes.
That separation prevents a common error. A parent may over-focus on a headline business turnover number while ignoring what is actually available after tax, social security, legitimate expenses, debt service, reinvestment, and private add-backs. The other parent may over-focus on the latest low-income year while ignoring retained profits, shareholder loans, bonuses, dividends, or company-paid personal costs.
Build A Three-Year Income Picture
For employed earners, gather employment contracts, payslips, bonus letters, tax assessments, pension contributions, benefits in kind, and severance or equity documents. For self-employed earners, build at least a three-year picture unless Caira asks for a different period. Include profit and loss statements, balance sheets, tax returns, tax assessments, VAT filings, bank statements, shareholder loan accounts, management accounts, and explanations for unusual expenses.
Do not hide bad years or one-off windfalls. Explain them. A major client loss, sale of shares, pandemic-era support, one-off dividend, relocation cost, or litigation expense may be important precisely because it is unusual. The file should help distinguish recurring income from exceptional events.
German Evidence Checklist
Einkommensteuerbescheide for the relevant years and any open tax audits.
Business accounts, Einnahmenüberschussrechnung or Jahresabschluss, and management reports.
Contracts for director fees, employment salary, consulting income, bonuses, dividends, and profit distributions.
Bank statements for business and private accounts used for family expenditure.
Company-paid car, housing, travel, phone, insurance, school, or family costs.
Debt schedules, loan agreements, tax arrears, pension contributions, and health insurance costs.
Child-related costs: school, kindergarten, health, tutoring, travel, special needs, and insurance.
For an internal German summary, use this structure: Zeitraum: ; Einkunftsart: ; Brutto/Netto: ; Steuerbescheid vorhanden: ja/nein; außergewöhnliche Zahlung: ; private Nutzung über Firma: ; Nachweis: ; offene Frage für Anwalt: . It is plain, but it keeps the file tied to documents rather than impressions.
High Income Means More Context, Not Less
Where income exceeds ordinary table ranges or is irregular, a clean narrative matters. Explain the business model, seasonality, currency risk, client concentration, and whether money is retained for genuine operating needs. Also identify lifestyle indicators: mortgage payments, rent, school fees, club memberships, domestic staff, investment accounts, and holidays. Lifestyle evidence should be used carefully. It can reveal available resources, but it can also mislead if funded by debt, savings, or one-time asset sales.
If both spouses have companies, prepare mirrored evidence. Do not assume only one side's business will be examined. In high-conflict cases, the credibility of the disclosure process can become as important as the arithmetic.
Where the business pays family expenses, add a separate benefits schedule. List the expense, payer, business reason claimed, private benefit if any, and supporting document. That schedule helps avoid a fight in which both sides talk past the actual cash flow.
Use The Düsseldorf Table Responsibly
The 2026 Düsseldorf Table and NRW guidelines are useful starting points for child support discussions, especially for income bands and age groups. They are not a promise of the final number. The table assumes typical patterns and may require adjustment for high income, multiple dependants, special needs, private insurance, or unusual care arrangements. Treat it as a structured reference for discussion with Caira, not as the whole case.
BGH decisions and local family-court materials can provide practical examples of how maintenance disputes are framed, but they cannot replace current advice on the facts. The best preparation is a calm, complete financial file: no selective screenshots, no hidden company benefits, no improvised spreadsheets. That will not guarantee a lower or higher support figure. It will make the professional conversation faster, more precise, and less vulnerable to avoidable credibility attacks.
This article is general information, not legal, financial, medical or tax advice.
