Let’s not beat around the bush—plenty of parents come out of a Cafcass interview convinced the officer must have a secret favourite. Some swear Cafcass always sides with mums, others are certain it’s dads, and a few reckon it’s whoever brings the best biscuits to the meeting. Truth is, bias can sneak in, whether it’s down to a rushed assessment, a clash of personalities, or just the officer having a bad day. You might feel like your side of the story was brushed off, or that the other parent got the royal treatment.

Cafcass: Just One Piece of the Puzzle

Let's say that the cafcass officer is biased and dislikes you. Here’s the good news: Cafcass are just one piece of the puzzle. Their report is important, but it’s not the gospel. The judge is the one calling the shots, and they have to look at everything—your evidence, school reports, medical notes, and even the child’s own wishes. If Cafcass get it wrong, you’re allowed to say so (politely, of course). The judge isn’t obliged to follow their recommendations and often goes their own way if the facts point elsewhere. So, don’t panic if you think Cafcass have missed the mark. You answer to the court, not to Cafcass, and your evidence can make all the difference.

Switching Cafcass Officers: Does It Help?

Some parents, frustrated with their Cafcass experience, ask for a different officer, hoping for a fresh perspective. In reality, swapping workers rarely changes the outcome unless the evidence itself shifts. The court’s decision is built on the documents, statements, and third-party reports you submit—not on who’s holding the clipboard. If you want a truly independent view, you can ask the court to consider appointing an independent social worker. Their assessment can sometimes offer a more balanced or specialist perspective, especially in cases with complex needs or where both parents feel unheard.

Focus on What Matters: Evidence and Welfare

Instead of getting bogged down in frustration, focus on the bigger picture: gather solid evidence, organise your documents, and build a case that shows what’s genuinely best for your child. Whether you’re disputing Cafcass' bias or strengthening your own position, it’s the facts and the child’s welfare that matter most—leave the drama for EastEnders.

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