If you’re expecting a home visit from CAFCASS (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service), it’s natural to feel a bit anxious. Many parents worry their home will be judged or compared to others, but the reality is much simpler and focused on your child’s wellbeing.
There are parents who live in caravans or share a bedroom with their child, and they still have contact and overnight stays—so it’s not about having the biggest or fanciest home. CAFCASS are interested in safety and the quality of your relationship, not your décor or possessions.
What Actually Happens During a CAFCASS Home Visit?
Observation, Not Inspection:
CAFCASS officers usually spend time with you and your child in a relaxed setting—often the lounge or kitchen. They’re there to observe how you interact, not to judge your décor or possessions.No Full House Tour:
Unless there are specific safeguarding or welfare concerns, they won’t ask to see every room. If there’s a concern about where your child sleeps or plays, they may ask to see those areas, but it’s not a “snoop” around your home.Focus on Safety and Wellbeing:
The main things CAFCASS look for are whether your home is safe and suitable for your child. This doesn’t mean it has to be spotless or spacious. Children can and do have contact and overnight stays in all sorts of homes—including caravans or shared bedrooms.
What Should Parents Do to Prepare?
Tidy Up (But Don’t Stress):
A quick tidy can help, but don’t worry about perfection. CAFCASS aren’t looking for the “nicest” home, just a safe and welcoming environment.Remove Hazards:
Keep alcohol, medication, or anything that could be seen as dangerous out of sight. This helps show you’re mindful of your child’s safety.Be Yourself:
The visit is about seeing your real relationship with your child. Try to relax and interact as you normally would.
What CAFCASS Are Not Looking For
They don’t compare parents’ homes or judge who has more toys, bigger rooms, or better furniture.
They won’t mark you down for living in modest accommodation.
They’re not there to catch you out or make you feel inadequate.
In Summary
A CAFCASS home visit is about your child’s safety and wellbeing, not about having a perfect home. Focus on creating a safe, comfortable space and showing your genuine relationship with your child. If you have concerns or want to know more about what to expect, you can ask questions or upload documents for further explanation.
No credit card required